You can tell that my FetLife essays are extremely personal, because my marketing sucks. Normally, Mondays are the big day for new posts, certainly weekdays – traffic’s dead on weekends. And you especially don’t post an essay at 2:00 in the afternoon when no one’s reading, because the hits will be tragically low.
But I did promise to mention it here whenever I wrote an entry on Fet about my personal journey into alternative sexualities, and this one’s a fairly major one: an entry about my first public beating of a girl at the local BDSM club. Which either sounds way kinkier than it actually was, or I’m just getting really too fucking jaded.
Anyway, the essay is called I Beat A Girl, And I Liked It, or: The TealDeer Experience Of A First-Timer. You know where to find it.
Cross-posted from Ferrett's Real Blog.